One of the most terrifying thoughts that could cross your mind while in a relationship is, “is my boyfriend cheating?” (or is my girlfriend cheating?) When I say I get asked a lot for advice on cheating, I mean a lot, a lot… Someone had sent me an email about how she’s unsure if her boyfriend is cheating… In the email she said:
“He hasn’t done anything as far as I’m aware to make me not trust him, however, we don’t have any mutual friends (because of how we met) so I feel like he could very easily cheat on me.”
Another reader said:
“About a month ago, my boyfriend ended things extremely abruptly. He was vague and basically said it’s too hard to be long distance and he just couldn’t do it anymore. I’m absolutely heartbroken and can’t help but wonder if he cheated on me.”
So, it’s completely normal if you’ve ever had these same thoughts, because as you can tell, you’re not alone.
So I’ve been talking to a guy for two months. We are doing long distance. Beginning of this months I would ask him if I can call him but he tells me that he is very busy and stressed and I would ask him “how come ?” He just tells me he will tell me later and he never does and it’s been happening for almost two weeks. So I don’t don’t what to think girl ?
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel because I know my boyfriend is always busy but he’ll tell me why he is busy . He should be telling you what is wrong and why he’s so busy all the time . He should at least have 5mins free just to call you I think he’s coming up with excuse and you should tell him how you feel . And if it keeps happening it just shows what he is up too.
How do you keep the distance going when your in a long term relationship? I really love my boyfriend and it’s been 1 month and 3 weeks and he’s already saying distance is the problem . He saying he wants me and I’m saying I want him and we don’t want this this to ever end . We have seen each other once . I honestly don’t know what to do ?
Hey Pnina,
Thanks for your comment! Here is some advice on how to cope with the distance:
https://longdistancerelationships.blog/how-to-cope-with-long-distance/
Hope it helps!
So I’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 month, and just about until June 15th we would talk like almost everyday, FaceTime and messages. Now he barely messages me and we haven’t done a FaceTime in forever. And my mind is just going through so many possibilities because this girl has been flirting with him and he’s been talking to her a lot lately. What should I do?
You have to be honest with him… Tell him how you’re feeling and that you’re uncomfortable with the girl who keeps flirting with him. Communication is key!
Good luck!!